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The dynamic may or may not move into a serious relationship, but they are not trying to gather other options or back up plans in case it doesn’t. Americans (both men and women) have been socialized to play games, to act unavailable, to wait a particular amount of time before texting back…
There are a set of ritualized rules that are abided by in American dating culture, and if you don’t play within them, you are labeled as desperate or needy or undesirable.
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Out of all the black singles you may meet online, very few of those individuals are actually compatible with you, and it can be challenging to determine the level of compatibility of a potential partner through traditional online dating methods – browsing profiles and photos.
The e Harmony Matching System narrows the field from thousands of black singles to match you with a select group of compatible single black men or women with whom you can build relationships that last. We realize it can be a challenge to meet other singles with whom you share common goals, interests, and backgrounds within your geographical area, and e Harmony can help.
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So does this mean the only hope for a happy, committed relationship is to move to another country? As mentioned above, the observations summarized above are not really about where one is born, but rather a mentality that is influenced by societal and cultural values.
We must be aware of our own behavior in the dating game, because we are active participants in how we are treated.
Now, when I discuss the differences between European and American, I’m referring to a mindset. American men on the other hand, tend to be goal oriented, with the aim of getting laid.
You can very well be born in America but have a more “European” mindset and vice versa. Perhaps this ‘score mentality’ is for bragging rights, perhaps it’s for validation so they can feel wanted and desired, or perhaps it’s a pure ego play.