And, as you narrow it down, I think you’ll find you end up with one of six major types of messages (with likely overlap). They giving us a point of view on the best way to achieve a certain goal (e.g. A message you might want to develop would be ‘buying quality that will last forever is the best investment you can make’ or, in brief, ‘buy quality’ or ‘craftsmanship matters.’ The message isn’t about making your case. There used to be a clothing brand called ‘No Fear’ that was all about extreme sports and going for what you want with no fear.being happier, making more money, better relationships etc.) My colleague Rebecca Tracey of The Uncaged Life believes that “life is meant to be lived (not spent in a cubicle), that you have a choice about how you spend your days here on earth, and there’s no sense spending your days living by someone else’s rules.” If I had to sum up this message it might be ‘live by your own rules’. A client of mine, Monika Denes, said this: “My passion is finding the root of health problems and – yes, sounds airy fairy – helping people be happier, because that is the best way to be and stay healthy.” If I had to summarize, ‘if you want to be healthy, be happy’.And sometimes even an airbag or condom can't provide safety. It has continued ever since with my partner who I met during a national tour of "Annie" (o.k. Now why, you may be pondering, am I writing here about a sometimes salacious subject when this column is about acting and casting?First of all, in full disclosure, I must admit that I am not unblemished when it comes to my past sex life (no comment on the present). No holier-than-thou-evangelical-Prop 8-bedroom-interference. Because relationships -- especially intimate, when mingled with business -- matter. It isn't one's love for the latest stage hit that has developed a cult-following accompanied by a marketing campaign that includes relentless merchandising of the show on T-shirts and towels.
And that conversation is the beginning of where a message comes from. It’s got nothing to do with her modality or she helps people and the tools she uses.
Producers tend to have more money than you and your out-of-suitcase peers. (Lesbians have on-hand assorted-sized engagement rings.)Paul Russell's career as a casting director, director, acting teacher and former actor has spanned nearly thirty years.
Even if you believe your mating manners in a company are not excessive or are above honor, still keep it from producers and creatives who hire. If the intimate mingling is with a producer or creative, then you really want to keep your relationship quiet. What intimate relations that may develop in the heightened emotional state of collaboration may not have happened elsewhere. Either way, go with some common sense, respect for others, and discretion. He has worked on projects for major film studios, television networks, and Broadway.
At least until you have to invite guests to the wedding/commitment ceremony. The Heart For the newbies to the business and the veteran idealists (both of which I was long ago), ground yourself. The atmosphere of working and/or living close under stresses and adrenalin may spur attractions and situations that you would not normally follow in the "real world."From long ago I recall sitting in the living room of Shawnee Playhouse's cast house as two infatuates of each other were snuggling on a couch across from me. He is the author of "ACTING: Make It Your Business – How to Avoid Mistakes and Achieve Success as a Working Actor." For more information, please visit
The young lady was very much enthralled with her new beau.