I guess I could have taken a chance on one of them and fallen in love.But I dared not — the terrified of being fooled again thing.
I loved him for who he was, but mostly for who he was not. I liked being able to relinquish control, even if just in the restaurant ordering wine. But here is the thing, and here is what so many men miss: Women who are charged with doing it all — women like me who care for children and sometimes elderly parents and homes and careers — sometimes we want to do one less thing.
I can put my cell phone on silent while we slow dance in the den, but I cannot turn it off.
Not on the anniversary of our first date, and especially not on New Year’s Eve.
Sometimes we do not want to be the only one to take out the garbage and drive to the store.
Sometimes we are so tired of being together and in charge, we do not even want to talk, listen or pick out a movie.